New Year's Resolutions: If at First You Don't Succeed ...

The problem with New Year’s resolutions is that people make them, break them … and then leave them in the dust.

I can be counted among those. Except I won’t leave them in the dust.

I’m making a resolution a week this year.

So far, I’ve made three and kept none. Go me.

It’s not like I haven’t done anything on my list. I just haven’t done any of them up to the standard that I declared I would. I’ve run, just not three times a week the past couple weeks.

I’ve successfully not watched TV as much. But I’m not sure it’s the “avoiding TV two times a week” I was planning on.

I’m not living up to my goals. I could blame not feeling great and work travel. Work travel indeed throws a crimp in routine. But given all the travel I have scheduled in the next few months, I should probably learn to adjust. I could also blame the weather; I live less than a mile from Planet Fitness, though, so is that really an excuse?

My point is, if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.

So that’s what I’m going to do. Because the only way to make the changes in your life that you want to make is to keep trying to make them, even if you fail. Don’t wait until January of the following year.

Pruning? Not Yet

I’ve been pondering whether I should be pruning my perennials this winter – I have a lot of brown, dead-looking plants in my yard.

But according to at least one expert, it’s not time yet. And this expert’s in Florida, which  you know, isn’t exactly known for its cold spells.

Whatever you do, “Don’t prune your plants, yet,” said Carol Lord, a horticulturist with Escambia’s Agriculture extension agency. “All that dead matter is insulation for the roots,” she said “Pruning will stimulate new growth and that will make the plants susceptible to future freezes.”

I have to assume that that advice applies here in colder climates as well.

Anyway, if you’re interested in learning more, read the article

Here’s a nice feature from Better Homes and Gardens on what to prune and when.

A Resolution a Week: Week 3 – Clean One Room a Week

I moved into a new house nearly two years ago now. The house is much larger than my old condo. The thought of cleaning every inch of the house is always overwhelming.

That’s right, I’m admitting I’m not exactly a clean freak.

My resolution this week is to clean more. I know that seems a little silly. And really, just one room a week? It does seem a little weak. To be clear, I mean really clean one room that is actually used.

That said, who knows? Maybe more than one room will get deep-cleaned a week. Maybe I’ll get on a roll.

I’m thinking it will push me to be more organized, which is something that I want to do better with this year.

It will also help me not feel so guilty about that fake plant I’ve been meaning to dust or my less-than-organized clothes drawers.

And to be clear, it’s not like I’ll let the rest of the house go to waste.

My Gardening Wish List for 2014

As I sit around my house, tapping my feet, waiting for January to come to an end so I can start preparing to start seeds, I find myself thinking about the fun new garden accessories I want this year.

I realize my list is really simple, but I am very practical about things - as I'm only in my third year of gardening. Yet I have realized how much of a nerd I am when it comes to gardening, I am excited no matter how vanilla my list.

Here are five:

1. Tomato Cages
So simple, I know, but I love the fact the cages linked above are square, and not cone-shaped like a lot of tomato supports. They also appear to be much stronger than those I’ve used in the past. My tomatoes always get much higher than I expect – a good thing I think – and more unruly than I expect. So having a stronger cage is worth paying a little more. And with my plans for increasing my tomato yield significantly this year, I need a consistent support.

Around the Web: Gardens Helping People

I love hearing stories about communities that have built gardens to empower different parts of their populations.

Like this community garden focused on helping the Burmese refugee population. 

I also like hearing about gardens as an outlet for those who need one, as well as a way to build skills that can be marketable, such as landscaping.

Like this prison that is implementing a garden project in partnership with Planting Justice and the Insight Garden Program. 

Here’s an old video of the San Quentin prison garden program:


San Quentin Prison Garden from Emily Bender on Vimeo.

A Resolution a Week: Week 2 - Take 2 Days Off from TV a Week

Not my real TV

Life these days consists of going to work, coming home at roughly 6 p.m., making dinner and sitting in front of the TV and watching "our shows." After all, as my husband says, they don't watch themselves.

If I'm lucky, I get up off the couch and go running at the gym.

But given that it's winter, it's difficult to say the least to get the willpower to do so.

Alas, this post is not about where to get that willpower. But I'm hoping my second resolution in my Resolution a Week for 2014 plan will help.

A Resolution a Week: The Challenge of Willpower When Your Workout Buddy Has None

It was only the first week of my grand Resolution a Week for 2014, and I've already failed. I even got new running shoes, and yet I only ran twice, rather than the three times I had aimed for.

I blame two things:

• My husband
• TV

I know that I'm just making excuses. It's not really my husband's fault I didn't run three times last week.